About us
You don’t have to untangle this alone
Unknotted Foundation is a calm, supportive community for people going through separation and divorce. We connect you with others who understand, share stories that give hope, and create small, gentle ways to meet — online and in person.
We are not a legal advice service. We are not a substitute for solicitors, mediators, therapists or financial advisors. We are people who have been there, building the space we wish had existed when we needed it most.
What we believe
Kindness first
Every reply is a chance to lift someone up. There is no room for judgement, shame or harsh advice here.
Privacy protected
You choose how you appear. Stay anonymous to the community while still being privately verified with us. Your real identity is never shared without your permission.
Lived experience
The most helpful support often comes from someone who has stood where you are standing. Our community is built on that understanding.
Non-judgemental hope
There is no timeline for healing, no right way to divorce, and no pressure to be further along than you are. You are welcome exactly as you are.
Community-first
Unknotted is a members' club, not social media. Discussions are organised, searchable and gently moderated so the space stays safe.
Our Community Promise
- We will always treat kindness as the most important rule. No sarcasm, no shame, no one-upping.
- We will be honest about what Unknotted is and is not. We share lived experience, not professional legal advice.
- We will protect your privacy fiercely. Your real identity belongs to you and to you alone.
- We will keep the space safe. Moderators are members too, and they act gently but firmly when boundaries are crossed.
- We will never leave you feeling like the only one. However you are feeling today, someone here has felt it too.
Founded by lived experience.
Community-first. Privacy protected. You’re never alone.